Mar

17

Posted by : Doug | On : March 17, 2009

I look out my window on the foggiest morning of the Winter. The meadow is shrouded in a veil of mist. The frozen moisture holds on to each twig, blade of grass and spider web.

As I sat in prayer this morning in the woods, in the grey light of pre-dawn, I could hear the rustling of the snowshoe hare under the willows. The boughs of the black spruce tree hung just above my wool cap, each of them detailed with a fine frost. From one icy needle hung an invisible thread of a spiders web, left over from the warm days of late Autumn. On the very end was suspended a treasure to put the finest jeweler to shame. The strand of silk was collecting crystals of its own. A feather of frost, nary the size of snowflake, drifted and floated in the cool drafts of the East breeze. Before my eyes hung the fragility of Creation we so often hear of. With a warm breath, the passing of a sparrow or a sudden gust of wind, this suspended gem would be gone. It won’t be there when I return tomorrow. I will never see its uniqueness again. There will be other wonders, other marvels. But none the same. As it is with the rest of Creation; humans, animals, plants. We must evaluate each act as life-giving or life-taking.

Were my words in that conversation life-giving or did they destroy a piece of that person?

Is my lifestyle making this world a better place for my children’s grandchildren?

Does my family know I love them? What have I done this week to restore myself?

Have I gazed upon the face of my children with the same awe and wonder as this moment?

With the flick of a switch, the utterance of a word, the toss of a wrapper, this suspended gem could be gone.

It won’t be there when we return tomorrow. Let no moment pass with lack of attention to the detail that was poured into it at the time of Creation.

Going where called,
Doing what is asked,

Doug

Mar

11

Posted by : Doug | On : March 11, 2009

Good morning! Oh my Lord. There is SO much in my little ol’ pea brain right now! Right now, I wanted to share with you that if your group, company, church or other organization is in need of some renewal, focus, vision or bonding, Judy and I are available for a very limited number of speaking and facilitation engagements in the next year!

We want to hear from you and see if there is a place we can serve you and your mission. From one hour consultations to three day retreats.

Please contact us and book early!

We can cover any number of topics. Have a look around the blog and you’ll get an idea of our vision and mission.

E-mail me at intothewilderness@gmail.com.

Looking forward!

Doug and Judy

Mar

10

Posted by : Doug | On : March 10, 2009

I know (KNOW!) that this title got you curious. Part of you said “EWWW…no way! I do NOT want to know!” But a part of your brain, tucked backed in the primitive recesses of your ancestral urgings forced your finger to click on the link to find your way here. Perhaps it wasn’t even completely conscious but suddenly, you found yourself staring at this potentially scandalous post.

Yes, I know. Six kids. Who’s got time to talk?!

Well, Judy and I do. And it’s the nights where we put sleep off just a little longer so we can share some of our deepest thoughts from the day.

And the other night was just such a night.

I couldn’t even tell you the context of the conversation or what it was all about. But I know we were talking about the grind of day to day life and the choices we get to make. Sometimes those choices, while completely ours, we make them nearly unconsciously. Or we make them in such a fit of frenzied activity that we give them little attention.

We choose how we react to the latest cup of spilled milk. We choose to spend our evening surfing Crackbook. We choose anger over patience. We choose hurried-ness over attentiveness. We spend a large portion of our day choosing by reaction rather than decision.

And it was in the midst of this conversation that Judy dropped this one simple statement.

“How we live our days is how we live our lives.”

And it hung there in the air. Like a delicate down feather. Perfectly quiet and yet full of presence.

And at the end of our lives, we have all lived them one day at a time.

I’m going to go give my kids a real kiss goodnight.

For you all,

Doug and Judy

(My wife is a wise women. She is a blessing to me, day in and day out.  I love you Judy.)

Feb

28

Posted by : Doug | On : February 28, 2009

What the world needs now is love, sweet love.

It’s the only thing that there’s just too little of.

- Jackie de Shannon, 1965

Love?  Is that what’s needed?

Or maybe we need more time?  What’s the most common response I hear when I ask someone how they’re doing?  (Well, first on the list would be “Fine.”)  But a close second and moving up is “I’m so busy”.  And it’s said with an exhausted sigh.  We must need more time.

Wait.  It’s obvious.  The world needs God.  That’s the right answer isn’t it, for a question on a “religion” blog?  God.  Must be it.

No.  No, wait.  I’ve been in L.A. three days now and, honestly, it’s a little disconcerting.  Our brothers and sisters in the U.S. are getting slammed by this recession.  And it’s getting worse.  There is no pocket of conversation that doesn’t somehow reference the economy.  I’ve attended five speakers sessions so far and without exception, each presenter has referenced the economy and the hardships that are here and the ones yet to come.  The world, obviously, needs money.

Is that it?

Love.  Money.  Service.  Motivation.  God.  Community.  Time.

None of these.  (Nope, not even God actually.)

I ached over this question today as I sat beneath a massive palm tree.  (In plain sight but completely invisible to the crowds just five feet from my toes.)  The world needs something.  People need something.  I kid you not.  There is alot of pain here right now.  I woke up to it in a way I hadn’t before.  Likely because now, it’s my neighbor suffering.  It’s my friend losing his job.  It’s my colleague losing her husband.

And I know exactly what the world needs.

This world needs you.  YOU!  And it needs all of you.  You are holding back.  I AM HOLDING BACK!  We cannot hold back any piece of our truest selves from the world any longer.  This world needs you to be actively seeking out your truest self, the truest and fullest person God created you to be.  And that’s where God comes in.  It’s God’s cry for you.  The tears God sheds for you are for the beautiful parts of yourself that have been taken away and buried by the pain of life, the difficulties you’ve endured.  Oh, the world needs God alright, but God coming in the form of YOU COMING FULLY ALIVE and reaching out to the people around you.  When this happens, when each of us comes fully alive, we will give and the world will get exactly what it needs.  The world needs YOU to make GOD real.

I love this journey.  I don’t want to fall asleep for a single step of it.  I don’t want to miss a single pebble on the path or the slightest whisper on the wind.  And I don’t want you to miss it either.  You….are….needed.

All of me.

For all of you.

With Him.

Doug